it's happens... but we get over it. we all learn to build bridges. they a hide the mistakes that we make on a day to day basis. they give us a false sense of comfort. the give us a false sense of accomplishment. we say, "oh, look at that wonderful bridge i created." but what they don't see is the giant pile of garbo that we've created. the horrible toxic river, that we don't want anyone to see.  how does anyone get over it? there is really only one way to get rid of it, a massive clean up effort. not just you trying to cover it up. but we all learn to make mistakes, and then run.

but trust me, the guilt goes away.